Do you feel that your partner doesn’t really understand you?
Are there a few things that you wish you could change about your partner?
Do you feel alone in your relationship?
Do you feel stuck in a repetitive cycle of fights without any positive outcome?
You are more than welcome to make an appointment with Bertus Swanepoel who is a Counselling Psychologist to start the therapy process.
A dialogue model developed by Dr. Harville Hendrix is used that helps the couple to recognise the dynamic at work between them and how to remedy any possible destructive relationship patterns.
In using the therapy setting a process is facilitated where acceptance, validation and sympathy for your partner becomes essential in re-creating intimacy and connection.
During this process you might gain new understanding of your own childhood hurts and how they impact your relationship.
Although intimacy and connectedness might feel like an impossible ideal to some couples, the most important ingredient in getting the love you want is commitment. Engaging with your partner and the therapy process may help you to transform a reactionary relationship into an intentional but flourishing relationship.